17/05/2015

Cute and Kitsch - The Scarlett And Jo Navy Floral Stretch Jeggings

You know that I'm more into dresses than trousers (Although my wardrobe is beginning to suggest otherwise...) but when Scarlett & Jo asked if I'd like to give some of their new separates a go I couldn't possibly say no.

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Jeggings* - Scarlett and Jo at Evans
Bardot top - H&M (Available Here in white)
Clutch Bag - Second hand ebay
Court Shoes - New Look (Similar Here)
Sunglasses - New Look (Similar Here)
I was sent a pair of their brand new Navy Blue Stretch Trousers which are also known as the babygarb jeggings. Beautiful Becky modeled these for the SS15 campaign launch and made them look sexy as hell so I had my fingers crossed that they'd look even half as good on my ridiculously long lengs. 

The jeggings are high waisted and my favourite length for skinny fit trousers; Just above the ankle.  They've got a real 50s vibe to them, I bet Marilyn Monroe would have bought some herself (In between writing motivational quotes obvs)

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Forgive my face in these pictures, for some reason, the pictures with smiles made me look a tad, let's say demented.

I've paired the jeggings here with my H&M Bardot top which has been quite possibly my most worn item over the last three months. I bought this in striped monochrome as well as the black one and they work with absolutely everything. 

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I make no secret of the fact that I like my stomach to be kept under control, the babygaberdine fabric of these jeggings has excellent firm stretch and keeps all my parts in check whilst keeping shape beautifully. My biggest bugbear with capri pants is the knee thing, you know when you sit down and a virtual knee becomes created in the fabric and before you know it you have several "knees" and baggier trousers that MC Hammer at an all you can eat buffet. WELL, there are no knees with these jeggings at all, they stay the same shape from morning to night. Hurrah.



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I'm wearing the 16s and I find them very true to size. Saying this, with them being high-waisted I think I could have sized down and they would have still been a good fit.

So far, I've worn them styled as above with my heels and a leather jacket to go out for a couple of drinks. I've also worn them with my generic white lace up plimsolls (takes all my energy not to call them sandshoes..) and a long black tshirt for a loooong walk. They're so bloody versatile! 


The new range also has a wiggle dress and pencil skirt in the same material, though I'm now planning to wear more snazzy trousers, particularly for work so this could be start of something beautiful.
Watch. This. Space

Em x
* Denotes gifted items.

14/05/2015

Five Minutes On Confidence

This week I have been mostly thinking about...


CONFIDENCE

I want to clarify here before I start banging this proverbial drum; Physical appearance can impact confidence. However, as I’m becoming older (Notice I don’t say “maturing” here, I’m not that delusional), it plays less of a role in whether I feel brave, strong and confident or not. This, in part, is why I take such issue with people using a person’s appearance as a milestone against which to gauge their confidence level. For example, assuming that a fat person may be “overcompensating” when they don’t feel the need to hide in the shadows, or that a typically attractive person has no right to be shy. Looking at a person and deciding how confident they deserve to be = Utter nonsense.

I know that I come across as confident (To many people, OVER confident but I’ll come onto that later…). However, I am epically socially awkward – I can go to an event and swish about all loud and weird and potentially massively overbearing but as soon as I get home I become trapped in a “Why did I do this?”, “Why didn’t I do that?” cycle which is utterly exhausting and makes me feel like avoiding humans for, at the very least, the rest of my life.


Despite this, I’m confident about myself and what makes me the person I am. I’ve never had the internal battles so many people I know have in “finding themselves”. Maybe because I’m just so docile, I’ve never chosen to be anything I’m not. I don’t regret much long term because I accept that most decisions I make are the right decision for me at the time and that regret doesn’t change anything. This has given me a lot of time to come to terms with who I am and as such, I don’t generally feel there’s much point in hiding it.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m fully aware that I’m light-years away from perfection; Quite often, I want to origami my 6ft body into a small paper boat and float off somewhere very quiet and alone, where I can just be calm and switch off the “clown” setting I’m usually in. Ask and I will list every individual flaw about myself, even ones not yet in place but that I can imagine afflicting me in time. But wasting too much time on these wouldn’t do anyone any good and I’d have to add whiny to the list…

Confidence is seen as a terribly un-British thing to have. Whether it be confidence in your appearance or your ability – PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE IT. So overconfidence basically makes you the worst. Over the years, I’ve been subject to numerous cruel comments, particularly from women, about my “trying too hard”, being “fussy”, “OTT” and the standard “Who does she think she is?!” There’s also the occasional reference to me being self-centred, which I play along with when it occurs because it’s fun and I get to BE self-centred like a total and utter Kardashian B*TCH.

Kardashian mirror selfie without the contouring...
I’m not overcompensating, I’m not shy, I’m not overconfident, I am just me. And it takes a lot of energy to be me. I make the conscious effort every day to be who I am, to be the one who will ask the questions, who will try everything first and who will fill any awkward silence with a (potentially more awkward) noise. Let’s be honest, I’d last roughly 2.5 minutes in a zombie apocalypse situation.

Confidence doesn’t make you immune to insults, it doesn’t mean that you should have to be the office punchbag, it doesn’t propel you through every social event you attend. It’s part nature and part choice.

As a plea, if you take issue with someone’s confidence; Maybe take a minute to think about why this is? Is it that you don’t feel that they deserve to feel that way? Is it that you envy their confidence? Whatever it is, don’t knock someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes, or some other ridiculous cliché.

I’m going to leave you here with the song I hear in stereo whenever someone attempts to squish my vibe:


Em x

05/05/2015

Utility Chic with F&F

By now, you will have gotten the jist that I really like F&F. After the AW15 event I decided to make a couple of snazzy purchases, resulting in this D-Ring Utility Jumpsuit and Leather Metallic Effect Clutch Bag.

F&F  SS15
The jumpsuit has an elasticated waistband and a D-ring belt detail. I cannot get on with the D-ring belt.It keeps undoing itself. Potentially due to the sheer strength of a tummy full of bar snacks, who knows. But I'm going to come up with a plan for it and it really doesn't take away from the look of the suit so it's not the end of the world.

As always, I'm thrilled when the length of something works on me. The legs are meant to be full length, as you can see on me they're not. But that's because my legs are longer than most things and I actually like where they sit, which proves that you should always give something a go!

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The jumpsuit is £25, that is it. £25. This is already becoming a wardrobe staple with me wearing it twice in the space of a weekend (I was in different cities so no fashion faux pas if you're concerned). Firstly, I wore it for a night on the tiles, styled as above with my Topshop heeled sandals, F&F clutch and Quiz leather jacket. Then I washed it (hence it being a tad creased...) and wore it rolled up with flat sandals and a cross body bag when the sun came out. 

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It's going to be utterly perfect for my holiday, my only concern is how it will "travel" in my case as it does crease somewhat. Saying that, the bulk of the creases drop out quickly with it being viscose, meaning I'll just look a little bit bedragglds as opposed to my usual Courtney Love circa 1994 look.


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When it comes to clutch bags, I only ever go for oversized or it all gets a bit too Lilliput. This leather metallic effect clutch bag is the perfect size for me and the zip fastening means that all my shizzle isn't going to roll out and go all over the place. It's very similar to another metallic clutch I've coveted for a long time which retails at £62, whereas this one is £20. No. Brainer.


Leather Metallic Effect Clutch Bag - F&F
Seriously now, how much have F&F upped their game of late? I'm lucky in a way that my local supermarket is purely food based or the big shop could become prrrrrretty expensive...

Em x